Relationship saga

 How to attract the right man/woman

What you attract is a reflection of who you are,so do not be a shadow of yourself be yourself. 

Do not forget that "The law of attraction states that" like attracts like.."

1. Know yourself and love yourself, self discovery 

There are several ways to discover self. 

Prayers, and also learning about your temperaments and studying which you belong. This is vital. 

If you love yourself, anyone will love you, be confident in who you are, because your design is linked directly to your purpose, all that you need, to fulfill purpose is all that you are made of, your emotions, the right personality, right IQ, your looks and temperament. Everything about you is designed with intentionality by God.so who are you to even tell yourself what you are not. 

In essence God made you the way you are for a reason, there is a purpose for which you were created so don't downrate yourself. 

2. Develop or prepare yourself: 

work on yourself, what you respect you attract, meaning the respect you give to urself is the respect people will give to you.. 

You cannot treat yourself like trash and expect people to treat you like gold, it doesn't work like that. I hear people say negative things about themselves, like see my ugly arms, see my silly feet, you know what? This is exactly how people will perceive you as. Haven't you noticed that when you look at your mirror andyou see an angel, throughout that day you will naturally receive angelic compliments, the day you see the opposite you receive the opposite compliment also. 

3.Do not compare yourself to anyone:

You are you, the best of your kind, you are perfect for the right partner, you don't need to bleech or increase ur butt, infact you are just OK as you are... 

A bleeched body is a bleeched mind, an increased butt is an increased problem.. 

Love yourself the way you are. 

4. Know what fits you,i.e dress appropriately 

The way you dress is the way you are addressed. 

Know how to appear for every occasion, and above all know what fits you, if too much jewelry on you makes u look weired you should know, so reduce it, if makeup reduces your beauty, you don't need to wear one,don't join the crowd to lose ur crown, study what fits you... 

Some of us here, skirts makes us look so beautiful but because the world has set a Jean standard we must wear too, some Jean makes you look hot, but because you are the only one that knows how to represent Jesus in your community, you will wear an annoying skirt and expect to attract that man of you dream.... Eho, you are wrong. 

5.read, be vast on anything relationship

Bible says I Daniel understood by books, do you know you can read your way to the best romance ever?? As single, I read alot about relationships, and I chose my authors with caution, especially those with a known successful relationship and marriage... 

"What you do not have you cannot give" don't just learn from any author, read about them first. 

And seive whatever you read with the word of God.... 

6.Poise should be cultivated:

You need elegance and good character in all your getting, don't be rough and clumsy, train yourself.. What you are you attract, if you are rough you are likely gonna find someone like you, to be an empress you need to be fit for your emperor, so please learn poise..

7. Do not make sex a priority... 

Keep yourself for your partner the best you can. 

Hebrews 13:4 says Marriage is honourable in all, and the bed undefiled: but fornicators and adulterers God will judge.

See, sex may look normal in this our present dispensation, but let me tell you for a fact it is a sin to fuck, straf, shag, consummate have sex before you marry. If you have had before now, it does not matter I would assume you didn't know then...but you can still have a change of mind, no matter how far you have gone on a wrong path, it is never too late to turn back. 

Let's call a spade a spade.

Its easier for a man to suspect you for infedelity if you have consumated before marriage than if you r met celibate... 

This is my opinion. 

Finally 

8.The God factor: the Bible says every man will proclaim their goodness, a faithful man who can find, hmmmm, only God ooo.. 

Ask the good Lord to find you the right partner,with a sincere heart prayer,and please go with this consciousness of "he that finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord, that makes every woman a favour, jackpot, he who finds you has found himself a jackpot...

God bless you all.

Ayousher